Babe takes the first wake up in the night. He also puts her to the bed. So what this used to mean was that he held her from about 9 on, then fed her at midnite and put her to bed. Now, we put her in her bassinet around 9 or 10 pm (he does that) and then he takes the first feeding. If its before 2am.
It should technically be before 2am, because little buddy doesn't really go longer than 3 hours without eating. But what if she doesn't go down until 10:45 or 11:00? Then she could very likely get up at 2am the first time.
The other night it was 2:14 and I was like, Babe. Babe. Babe. She's awake. And he totally got up and fed her. And I knew in my heart of hearts that it was wrong! So wrong what I had done. Such a breech of the system.
But I still turned right over and fell back asleep.