Yesterday, I got a text that said that from a friend I haven't spoken to in a year (give or take). I hate moments like that because why? Why would I be mad?
I quickly logged onto my hotmail, which I don't use and never check, to see if maybe he had written me a few emails that I didn't respond to. Nein. No emails in the hotmail. Searched the gmail - maybe it had gone to spam? Nope.
Of course I texted back immediately - What?! No! Why?!
But this has happened to me before. I sometimes don't talk to people for a long time, but I'm almost never mad at them. I'm almost never mad at anybody. If I was mad at cha I'd definitely be talking to you, naamsayin?
Being that I live so far away from everyone, I try to keep in touch through the interweb and the ole facebook situation. Also, this blog, of course! It might not be good enough for some peeps.
I don't have a point to this story, really, just sharing.
I had this one friend for a long time when I was in college that I used to call Quinby. That was not his name. He was very cool and we had a really good time hanging out and working at the library together. We sort of lost touch and then re-connected at some point over the telephone. When I talked to him, he was furious with me! Thought that I was a no good friend who had left him out in the cold. I had no idea.
I hope that's not what's gonna happen with this fella who sent me that text.
(In case you think I'm a crazy passive aggresive person, he doesn't read this blog, so it's not like I'm talking to him w/o talking to him.)